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Mature Casual Dating: No-Strings Fun for Over-40s

For over-40s who know what they want, say so out loud and fancy grown-up fun with no strings attached.

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18+ only · Part of Casual.uk since 2015 · Over 250 members

A laughing couple in their forties, playful in bed

Your forties, fifties and beyond, with the spark switched back on

Mature Casual is the over-40s side of Casual.uk, made for people who have done the long relationships, the school runs and the career climbing, and come out the other side single, curious and ready to enjoy themselves.

What you want now is simpler, and a lot more fun. Proper flirting, the kind with eye contact and a second glass of wine. Sex without a conversation about where it is all heading. Someone who knows what they like and is not shy about asking for it.

Nobody needs a five-year plan from you. Say on your profile whether you fancy a regular arrangement, an occasional no-strings evening or a night that stays strictly between the two of you, and your daily matches weigh up what other people are looking for too.

Who's on Mature Casual right now

Mature Casual has over 250 members, mostly aged 35 to 64, and nearly a quarter of them are women. Greater London is where it is busiest.

Who it is for

Made for mature singles who have lived a little

Mature Casual is one of five Casual.uk sections, with over 2,000 members between them. This one is for grown-ups who would rather be honest about desire than coy about it.

Single again, and enjoying it

Out of a long marriage or a long relationship, and ready to enjoy yourself without signing up for another one.

Happily unattached

You like your own space and your own bed most nights, and a playmate who never needs a drawer at yours.

Experienced, and proud of it

You know what you like by now, in and out of the bedroom. Put it on your profile and let someone who likes the same come and find you.

Mature casual dating that fits around a full life

You have work, family and friends to fit in, so the site does the sorting for you.

  • Daily matches, picked on the age range you want, how far away people are, what they are looking for (casual included) and the interests you share.
  • Private messages you can pick up on your phone over lunch or on the laptop after dinner.
  • The members' feed of photos and status updates, so you get a sense of someone before you write.
  • Badges earned through activity: Chatterbox, Heartthrob and Most Popular.
  • Nothing to install: it opens in your phone's browser and sits on your home screen like any other app.

Our tour of the features explains each tool in plain English, and the membership page sets out the VIP options.

Discreet enough for grown-up children and nosy neighbours

By your forties, life is crowded with people who know you: an ex in the same town, colleagues, adult kids who would rather not hear about it. Your profile shows a username and your nearest town, never your real name, your email or your street.

You choose which photos go on show and which you keep for someone you have got to know. Anyone who oversteps can be blocked or reported straight from their profile or your conversation. Before a first meet, read our safety advice for grown-up dates.

Make your first week a memorable one

  1. Pick recent photos that look like you on a good day. A warm smile does more than any filter.
  2. Say plainly what you are after. "Dinner, and we'll see where the night goes" is a perfectly good answer.
  3. Mention one thing you enjoy doing, from sea swimming to vinyl, so people have an easy opening line.
  4. Make the first move. A message that picks up on something in their profile is flattering, and far easier to answer than "hi".

Find your scene on Casual.uk

Every section has its own members and its own sign-up.

Straight advice, side-by-side comparisons and town-by-town guides from the main Casual.uk site.

Grown-up questions, straight answers

Is Mature Casual only for people over 40?

It is made for people over 40, and members are mostly aged 35 to 64. If you are younger, Single Casual on the main Casual.uk site is open to every adult age.

Is it for something serious or for casual fun?

Casual fun comes first: no-strings dates, regular arrangements, flings and nights that stay between the two of you. You say what you want on your profile, and daily matches weigh up what other people are looking for.

How is Mature Casual different from Casual.uk?

It is a section of Casual.uk with its own members and its own sign-up, set up for over-40s who want grown-up fun with no strings attached.

Who runs Mature Casual?

Casual.uk, which has offered casual dating in the UK since 2014, on the HubPeople dating platform. There is more on our about us page.

You know what you want. Go and enjoy it

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